Both of my parents passed away in the month of April, my mother preceding my father by a little more than one year. The burial ceremony spare, the grave unmarked, covered with clumps of dirt and mud. It’s a messy affair, quiet and disquieting, memories clouded. Uncomfortably numb.
One year later, we gather again for the unveiling, pain eased by time. Tradition guiding us, marking impermanence, placing a granite monument etched with the bare essentials, name, dates, religious lineage. Our presence evidence of their enduring importance. And honoring them with unmarked stones.